Whether it is a romantic relationship or asking someone for money or just asking for help, it always helps if you were to just start by getting to the point
Men need sex for emotional connection, women need emotional connection for sex. (As I recall that was from Emily Nagoski's book on female sexuality, 'Come as you are'). So the Catalan friend might have been explaining this from a male perspective.
Men need sex for emotional connection, women need emotional connection for sex. (As I recall that was from Emily Nagoski's book on female sexuality, 'Come as you are'). So the Catalan friend might have been explaining this from a male perspective.
that's a good way to look at it! but more profound is him asking for it right upfront - rather than beating around the bush